So many people go through life trying to change other people. I’ve seen first hand how much time, effort, stress and worry one person will put themselves through in a vain attempt to make another person someone they will never be. Ever. I’m all for helping others through troubling times. I’m waaaay too good at that myself. But agonizing over the past is only a waste of time. And life is simply too short for that.
And as my wise Grandmother once said to me during a difficult time: