can’t stop spending at Christmastime?

Dec 17, 2025

Once I start shopping for Christmas gifts I have trouble cutting it off. I’m not even talking about more gifts for the special people in my life… I’m talking about shopping for myself.

Shelley elf at the north pole

It’s like gambling in a way… when I am buying for others, I think about all the stuff I NEED. It’s an impulse stronger than any I’ve ever felt at a slot machine. Stuff I simply can’t live without? Nope… it’s mainly stupid stuff with a few not-so-stupid items thrown in for good measure.

It’s primarily the sales that hook and drag me in.

Nord VPN is 77% off if you pay annually for 2 years. That pair of shoes I like that I’ll never wear are on sale too. OooOOo… Swan Creek Candles has a huge mark-down today only and I sure do love those. (I have a least 10 jars I haven’t lit yet.)

burning candle

The temptation is real. It’s even worse after you purchase something for someone online and the company sends an order confirmation email with 30% off your next purchase if you buy before Christmas. Of course, I found items I wanted on those websites… and it’s 30% off, after all!

For example, my kid wears EXPENSIVE cologne. I ordered him a bottle for Christmas and when the order arrived, it had 2 samples inside. I LOVE one of them… have that 30% off coupon… and I even put the product in my cart before stopping just before spending $285.

Make a “wait until January” rule and stick to it!

I have a “wait until January rule” that helps me back-out before clicking the “place order” button. Here’s why:

  • A lot of impulse buys lose their appeal after a few days
  • January sales are often better anyway
  • It turns temptation into a future reward, not a denial

Now you know: After a woman recognized a copy of the rare NES game Stadium Events at a goodwill store, she bought it for $8 despite having just $30 in her account. When she took it to a used video game store, she was offered all the money in the cash register for it. She declined, then sold it online for $25K.